Smile at them. Don't have a forced smile, but a soft caring smile. You can even practice in the mirror.
Tell them a funny joke. Inside jokes work really well, especially if it is something only between the two of you.
Find something funny online and send it around in an email, such as funny cat clips.
Compliment them sincerely. Tell them how you love their shirt or how their hair looks.
Invite them to do something fun with you that you will both enjoy. Go bowling, swimming, or something else fun and active.
Pick a dandelion or blade of grass and give it to them. Say things such as, “I got this especially for you!” or "I picked this weed just for you!" It is different and might make them laugh at your sillyness, make them smile at your sweet nature.
Listen to them. Try to understand their thoughts and be in their shoes. This shows you care and love them, whether they may appreciate it or not. Be there. They will come to realize what a friend you've been.
Listen to what they have to say and let them know that you are there to help if needed.
Be happy yourself. You're saying, I know how to be happy - follow me! It can fade their sadness, getting in touch with their desire to enjoy themselves instead of shedding tears.
Do something that encourages sweating. Football, soccer, basketball, a jog with you two together, dancing, bowling, cleaning up the garage, etc.
Give your friend a hug! Tell them how you feel about them.
Take him/her to see animals, especially when he/her loves them!
Do something that is familiar and entertains him/her.
Let them know that you're comfortable with them around - say "Vera! I love you!", "I missed you!", "I love being around you!", "It's so nice to be here with you", etc. The other person would appreciate knowing that they're appreciated! Say anything sweet you truly mean, but have always kept on the inside. It'll make them smile physically and mentally, knowing that it came from the bottom of your heart.
Thursday, February 28, 2008
Make Someone Happy
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