Life is too short

Life is too short. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should. And let go of what you cant change. Love deeply and forgive quickly. Take chances give everything and have no regrets.

Life is too short to be unhappy. You have to take the good with the bad. Smile when your sad. Love what you got and always remember what you had. Always forgive but never regret. People change and things go wrong but always remember life goes on.

Dream Big!

Everyone has dreams, but some are bigger than others. If you want to reach for the stars, it's very easy. You may find disappointment along the way, but at least you never stop dreaming for something better for your life.

Figure out your passion. You can choose from the environment, animals, orphans, children overseas and the AIDS crisis in Africa, just to name a few. Pick something that you truly care about or your dream quickly fades into a memory.

Decide what you want to do, no matter how ridiculous it seems. Make it your dream to be the President of the United States, to cure the world hunger problem or to be the doctor who finds a cure for cancer. Sometimes dreams are unattainable, but that doesn't mean it's not fun to keep dreaming big about it.

Find out what steps you need to take to achieve your big dream. Do this by searching online or just making it up as you go. Learn about entering politics, becoming an activist or furthering your education. Dreaming does not mean logical. Some of the biggest dreams don't even have steps.

Do what you need to do to reach your big dream. Run for a position in your local government, join a charity food drive or go back to school. You may never achieve your goal in full, but at least you always strive for something better.

Every moment Last forever!

Life is full of choices

Making decisions affects every single person every single day. Sometimes, decisions are very important and will make the difference between life and death, but most are considerably less pressing.


First thing we should do is to identify the reason you are in a position to make a decision. Individuals tend to be very bad at figuring out precisely why they're doing something. For example, if it is 8am, you may find yourself wanting breakfast. Do you want breakfast because you're hungry? Because you've heard that breakfast is an important meal? Because you desire eggs and sausage? Figuring out the underlying cause of your decision will help you decide on a course of action.

And then, come up with action plans that solve your root problem. Sometimes you will find yourself in a position where courses of action are presented to you, but remember that you can often find alternatives. For example, if your father and someone posing as your father are standing in front of you, and you have a gun, and each implores you to shoot the other, you might decide to shoot neither, and try to determine which is truly your father through a full-proof method like DNA testing instead of your gut instinct.


Determine what is going to be affected by your decision. Often, the effects of your decisions will be limited to your life. If that is the case, you only need to decide how your life will be changed. Sometimes, others may be affected by your decisions as well, and it is important to consider the effect on their feelings, quality of life and impression of you when coming to a decision. For example, if the golf course at which you are a groundskeepers is being terrorized by a gopher, the use of dynamite, especially when high-stakes skins games are being played, may fundamentally alter the outcome of that game, not to mention the landscape.


Make your decision. Thoughtfully weigh the potential outcomes against the resources required to fulfill your decision, and attempt to choose the course of action that best addresses your underlying goal.

Everyone has Good Qualities

Sometimes we can't stop criticizing people. We make fun of everyone without noticing their getting hurt. So it is said that should be done at the right moment. But why can’t we just notice the good qualities and make fun of it? How? That is the challenging part, make use of your creativity.
Every person has good qualities, for example a man in prison, you should not judge him because he has his reasons... most of us can’t understand.
We must look to our inner feelings and our thoughts. Thinking positive thoughts, trusting those that offer you friendship, and dismissing both anger and hateful feelings, will result in a change from within us. We will think good thoughts, thus we will become good. We will do good, thus our entire persona will change. We will trust, instead of distrusting. We will care instead of being uncaring. We will help others in their time of need, instead of sitting back and waiting for someone else to help. We will in essence become a good person. Whenever you are doing something, ask yourself the question "Am I hurting myself or others". If the answer is no, then you aren't doing harm.
Imagine what you would appreciate, and then find ways to do those things for others. Adopt pets, it is an excellent exercise at kindness, plus it is being kind to help an animal. You can even "adopt temporarily" by offering to foster an animal and help resocialize it so that it can be permanently adopted by a family or other person.
Be nice! Sounds cliche, but the golden rule really does apply to being a good person; treat others the way you want to be treated.

The Secret

What is Love?

Believe me when I say love is to share... It is important to open ones heart and share – pain, joy, success and failure, it really does not matter, as long as the heart is clear. Love is being honest and knowing that the other person feels the same way too, it is sharing and losing ones inhibitions and knowing that the person on the other side will never be judgmental. Love is Talking Yes, love is talking. It is about speaking, telling and sharing. After some time people restrict their conversations to discussing bills, children and pets. This is a sure indicator of things going down hill. Bring the spark back by starting a conversation. Love is Spending Time Together A few minutes spent together everyday keeps the boredom away. I just made this up right now, but it is because I feel there is nothing like time invested in a relationship…believe me, it pays! Heavy work schedules take up much time and effort, so it is important to get things into perspective. Love is Faithfulness To love means to be true, to love unconditionally means to give with all your heart to one, and only one. Love is when you realize that he/she is the best thing that has happened to you and you want to cherish that person and the moments spent with him/her till death do you part. Love is Being Friends Love is being friends with each other. Enjoying simple pleasures in life like shopping, catching a movie or watching television at home, apart from a host of other things that "Friends" normally do! Love is Looking Together in the Same Direction This may sound clichéd, but it is true…love is having the same goals and taking steps in that direction to make them come true.

Respect is not Inborn

Our lives go depends every bit as much on whether we respect ourselves. The value of self-respect may be something we can take for granted, or we may discover how very important it is when our self-respect is threatened, or we lose it and have to work to regain it, or we have to struggle to develop or maintain it in a hostile environment. Some people find that finally being able to respect themselves is what matters most about getting off welfare, kicking a disgusting habit, or defending something they value; others, sadly, discover that life is no longer worth living if self-respect is irretrievably lost. It is part of everyday wisdom that respect and self-respect are deeply connected, that it is difficult if not impossible both to respect others if we don't respect ourselves and to respect ourselves if others don't respect us. It is increasingly part of political wisdom both that unjust social institutions can devastatingly damage self-respect and that robust and resilient self-respect can be a potent force in struggles against injustice.
The ubiquity and significance of respect and self-respect in everyday life largely explains why philosophers, particularly in moral and political philosophy, have been interested in these two concepts. They turn up in a multiplicity of philosophical contexts, including discussions of justice and equality, injustice and oppression, autonomy and agency, moral and political rights and duties, moral motivation and moral development, cultural diversity and toleration, punishment and political violence. The concepts are also invoked in bioethics, environmental ethics, business ethics, workplace ethics, and a host of other applied ethics contexts. Although a wide variety of things are said to deserve respect, contemporary philosophical interest in respect has overwhelmingly been focused on respect for persons, the idea that all persons should be treated with respect simply because they are persons. Respect for persons is a central concept in many ethical theories; some theories treat it as the very essence of morality and the foundation of all other moral duties and obligations. This focus owes much to the 18th century German philosopher, Immanuel Kant, who argued that all and only persons (i.e., rational autonomous agents) and the moral law they autonomously legislate are appropriate objects of the morally most significant attitude of respect. Although honor, esteem, and prudential regard played important roles in moral and political theories before him, Kant was the first major Western philosopher to put respect for persons, including oneself as a person, at the very center of moral theory, and his insistence that persons are ends in themselves with an absolute dignity who must always be respected has become a core ideal of modern humanism and political liberalism. In recent years many people have argued that moral respect ought also to be extended to things other than persons, such as nonhuman living things and the natural environment.
Despite the widespread acknowledgement of the importance of respect and self-respect in moral and political life and theory, there is no settled agreement in either everyday thinking or philosophical discussion about such issues as how to understand the concepts, what the appropriate objects of respect are, what is involved in respecting various objects, what the conditions are for self-respect, and what the scope is of any moral requirements regarding respect and self-respect.

It is widely acknowledged that there are different kinds of respect, which complicates the answering of these questions. For example, answers concerning one kind of respect can diverge significantly from those about another kind. Much philosophical work has gone into explicating differences and links among the various kinds. One general distinction is between respect simply as behavior and respect as an attitude or feeling which may or may not be expressed in or signified by behavior. We might speak of drivers respecting the speed limit, hostile forces as respecting a cease fire agreement, or AIDS as not respecting national borders, and in such cases we can be referring simply to behavior which avoids violation of or interference with some boundary, limit, or rule, without any reference to attitudes, feelings, intentions, or dispositions, and even, as in the case of the AIDS virus, without imputing agency (Bird 2004). In such cases the behavior is regarded as constitutive of respecting. In other cases, we take respect to be or to express or signify an attitude or feeling, as when we speak of having respect for another person or for nature or of certain behaviors as showing respect or disrespect. In what follows, I will focus chiefly on respect as attitude or feeling. There are, again, several different attitudes or feelings to which the term "respect" refers. Before looking at differences, however, it is useful first to note some elements common among varieties.

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